Something that's become a favorite tradition of mine in Singapore is "getting henna done." Henna is a plant-based dye that is used to draw intricate designs on skin. The dye actually permeates below the surface layer of the skin, so the design stays on your skin for nearly two weeks. (For reference, if you were to draw on your skin with a pen, the ink stain would sit on the top-most layer of your skin, so it would wear/wash off within about a day. A henna tattoo goes into a layer below that, and a needle-and-ink tattoo places ink into your skin yet another layer down, so that is what makes it more permanent, although even that form of skin tattooing still fades over time).
You can watch this video to see the quick, talented artist at work.
L to R: Me, Nesh, Meera, Janice, Vaynii
In any case, henna art is a way that women of any culture (but predominantly Muslim and Hindu cultures) celebrate holidays, weddings, birthdays and life in general. This is typically a tradition enjoyed by women together, and I feel lucky to have found a "henna buddy" here in Singapore, my past student Vaynii. About a year and a half ago, Vaynii invited me to her birthday party, where I had henna done for the first time (and also wore a traditional Punjabi suit, as the theme was "Bollywood" and I was encouraged to go shopping in Little India with another past student, Zena, to get myself something fun and new to wear!). I found the process of getting the henna painted on absolutely mesmerizing, and the process of letting it dry absolutely painstaking ("Is it dry yet? Can I wash it off and see the design?" "NO! LET IT DRY!").
Nesh admonishing me to LET IT DRY.
After the paste is COMPLETELY dry (it sets in about 10-20 minutes, and is dry to the point that it falls off within 2-3 hours), the design is light at first, and then darkens over the next 12 hours into a beautiful adornment.
Selamat Hari Raya!
Vaynii surprised me on Sunday with an invitation to a festival for the Muslim holiday Hari Raya. We went to a festival market where there were all manner of beautiful clothes, carpets, household decorations, shoes, jewelry, odd assortments of computer gadgets and more for sale in tents lining the streets. And interspersed among the sales tables were henna artists. I had this design painted on for $5. It is five dollars well spent for days of joy and a reminder to celebrate every minute of this wonderful life experience I've been blessed to have in Singapore!
After earning her Ph.D. in communication with a dissertation about socio-emotional intelligence in 2012, Amanda took a position teaching communication courses for SUNY Buffalo through the Singapore Institute of Management’s Global Education program for four years. In the summer of 2016, she returned home to the Western New York area for an assistant professorship in Communication Studies at SUNY Fredonia, and in the summer of 2022 she moved to Rochester for a clinical assistant professorship in Management Communication at the Simon Business School at the University of Rochester. When not teaching or researching, her hobbies include blogging, world travel, reading, writing, genealogy research, pampering her maltese-yorkie and most recently, restoring her 1964 split-level to all its mid-century-modern glory.
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FAQ about life in Singapore
Q: What's the weather like?
A: Hot. Singapore is one hour north of the equator, so it is hot and humid year-round (a tropical rainforest climate). Sunrise is at 7:30am and sunset is at 7:30pm with little variation. Average temperatures are between 72-95°F. It's been my experience that most days start out in the low 80s and rise into the 90s. Recently (Jan. 2014) Singapore has been experiencing unusually "cool" temperatures. My morning walk to the bus has been a breezy and beautiful 75°F each morning. I am told that this will not last!
Q: What is the native language in Singapore?
A: The official language is English. However, the fact that Singapore is such an awesome fusion of distinct cultures mean that all of those English-speakers also grew up speaking a second or third language at home, including dialects of Chinese, Hindi, Malay and others.
Q: Is Ginny going with you?
A: No, the quarantine process for dogs takes about 30 days. Therefore, my darling Morky will stay with her Nana, Grampa and her two cousins, Skipper (a Yorkie) and Christy (an Airedale). Believe me - she'll have lots of fun and be spoiled rotten.
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